posted by EmpressSassy on Mar 31
So often we are at work or other places and we are talking, working, “gossiping” and going about our daily habitual routine. I have a challenge for you that I want you to try. Most won’t do it, but if you do, you will be amazed.
For the next few days just listen. Yep, it’s amazing. If you sit at your desk, or wherever you work just don’t talk as much; just listen. You will be amazed what you hear. Now, for those that work with me don’t freak out, I’m not listening in on your conversations, that is not what this is about at all.
This is about being a listener to people and not always a talker. To be a better listener you have to become one. So often I can go for an entire morning without talking to anyone unless they speak to me. During that time you can listen to what goes on in your office; the morning chit-chat, work conversations, issues, raised voices on the phones, but you’d be amazed at how much you can get to know people and their personalities by just listening to the environment over a period of time.
You can observe people’s habits by how they talk, how often they talk, how often the DON’T talk. Listening is a great way to be a better friend, parent, co-worker, boss or even an employee.
It’s great to just tune into yourself, your area, your environment and just listen to what goes on around you. You don’t have to be involved, just listen for a while and observe.
Will you do it?
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