posted by EmpressSassy on Jun 26
If you read this article the experts disagree. One expert says that if you want great sex and your partner can’t deliver then you need to move on. The second expert states you should stick with your partner and work with it. The statement was “practice, practice, practice, and you can achieve what you are looking for in a partner.”
I personally think that if you are younger and you have the time to work at this then that might be OK. However, once you are older, let’s say my age, 40(ish) and you KNOW what you want, like, need; you don’t want to meet someone and practice with them until they can give you want you need. It’s just tiresome and who wants to spend all that time “trying” to get what you need? At their age if they aren’t experienced to your liking it just doesn’t work.
One girls opinion, just wondering what others think! Life is too short to be unsatisfied in a relationship. You’re already going to have disappointments in life just in general, along with disappointments from your partner that you are willing to overlook. Why should your sex life be mediocre? It’s the one area that you need to be able to be yourself, relax, let go of tension, and be able to express yourself. If your constantly teaching and explaining what you need how is that any fun for you? Again, if you are younger and are learning together that is a different experience all together; learn away and have fun doing it.
Thoughts?
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